The electronic version of the book “How Men Ruin Their Marital Relationships” authored by Dr. Muhammad Habib Al-Fandi.
It is the culmination of over 25 years of experience in the field of family counseling and repairing relationships between
spouses of all nationalities worldwide. In addition to the author’s personal experience, it presents the most important issues
that ruin marital relationships. Each issue is presented with a definition, description, the reasons that lead to it, the effects, and
the consequences that this problem has on the relationship between spouses and society in general. Then the book provides
the appropriate treatment and solution for all the problems presented.
The author adopted simplicity in presenting ideas in this book, avoiding complex terminology, making it accessible and
understandable for all cultural levels. He also relied on a systematic approach in presenting ideas, avoiding lengthy stories that
cause distraction, monotony, and boredom in addressing any of these problems. Among the problems addressed in the book are:

• Excessive jealousy (suspicion).

• Failure to express love.

• Neglect and lack of attention to the wife.

• Ingratitude. • Sexual abandonment.

• The man’s absence from his wife.

• Forgetting the wife’s occasions and neglecting her.

• The violent man.

• Hurtful speech.

• Neglecting personal hygiene and health.

• Silence and mysterious silence.

• The man’s mistreatment of the wife’s family and friends.

• Violence against children.

• The stingy husband.

• Arrogance.

• Infidelity.

• Threats of divorce and deprivation.

• Failure to engage the woman in what she loves.

• Forcing the wife to adopt his beliefs.

• Interference by the husband’s family in the wife’s private affairs.

• The man’s unemployment and idleness.

• Negligence in fulfilling religious duties.

• Mockery and sarcasm.

• Not listening to the wife.

• Not appreciating her in front of people and her children.

• The husband who does not provide his wife with relaxation time.

• Fear and cowardice.

• The lazy and dependent husband.

• Narcissism.

• Isolation and seclusion.

• The pessimistic husband.

• The complaining husband.