The electronic version of the book “How Women Ruin Their Marital Relationships?” authored by Dr. Mohammed
Habib Al-Fendi.
It is the culmination of over 25 years in the field of family counseling and repairing relationships between spouses of
all nationalities around the world. In addition to the author’s personal experience, he presents the most important
issues that ruin marital relationships. Each issue is presented with a definition, description, the reasons that lead to
it, the effects, and the consequences that this problem has on the relationship between the spouses and on society
in general. Then the book offers the appropriate treatment and solution for all the problems discussed.
The author relied on simplicity in presenting the ideas, avoiding difficult terminology, in order for the book to be
accessible and understandable to all cultural levels. He also relied on a methodical approach in presenting the ideas,
avoiding lengthy stories that cause distraction, tedium, and boredom when dealing with any of these issues. Among
the problems addressed in the book are:
High expectations.

• Not understanding the nature of a man’s mood swings.

• Your spouse does not think like you, and his mood is different from yours.

• Failing to meet a man’s needs.

• Excessive blame, complaints, and reproach.

• Passing judgment on one’s life partner.

• Excessive doubt and jealousy.

• Noise and lack of tranquility in the house.

• Excessive demands and failure to appreciate the husband’s financial situation.

• Highlighting the man’s flaws.

• Interfering with the spouse’s family and loved ones.

• Failing to meet his sexual needs.

• The wasteful woman.

• Disdain, humiliation, and excessive criticism of the man.

• Paying attention to trivial matters.

• Marital infidelity.

• Neglecting the home and its needs.

• Neglecting the upbringing of children.

• Absence from home.

• Excessive preoccupation with social media and the media.

• Revealing the privacy and secrets of the relationship and marital life to others.

• Arguments.

• Stubbornness and inflexibility.

• Loud voice.

• Ingratitude and denying favors and kindness.

• Mystery and secrecy.

• Comparison.

• Neglecting her appearance, physique, and cleanliness.

• Boredom and routine.

• Excessive talking and chatter.

• Sullenness and lack of cheerfulness.

• Neglecting religious duties.

• Arrogance and superiority over the spouse.

• Repeating violations of agreements made with the spouse.

• Involving family members or others in marital problems.

• The woman who does not participate in her husband’s occasions.